Blame it on the Alcohol

Alcohol is bad!

Except, ok—it’s not.  It’s actually inherently good.  Even Jesus was a fan.  We see him drinking wine as part of the Jewish feasts and even performing a miracle transforming water into wine at a wedding (taking “open-bar” to a whole new level).  There’s no basis anywhere in Scripture for a Christian to say that God is against people enjoying alcohol.

That being said: there are many places in Scripture that condemn drunkenness.

Unfortunately, the reality for our age group is that knowing that getting drunk is “a sin” is not usually enough to keep most of us from putting ourselves into situations that tend towards drunkenness, i.e. – that party on Saturday night,  “Thirsty Thursdays,” or sneaking out into the woods to drink if your college has a dry campus.  These are just things people our age do—and God understands, right?  For the most part, we’re not hurting anyone by getting more than a little bit tipsy, or even a little bit drunk, when out with our friends.

So then why is getting drunk “wrong,” if we’re just having fun?

The fact of the matter is: if you’re getting drunk and somehow don’t end up doing anything [else] “wrong,” there is very little separating you from the girl who wakes up with a tattoo the next morning besides chance.

When you choose to get drunk, you choose to reject your ability to reason.  And, in a nutshell, this is why it is a sin.  God gave us our intellect, our judgment, and the ability to control our desires.  Alcohol in excess removes this God-given power, slowly but surely.  A creature that lacks the ability to speak clearly, control his tongue, or even stand erect sounds more like an animal without motor skills than a man with the power of intellect and will.  And even though you might have that friend at the party that you have hired to take care of you, it’s not supposed to be anyone else’s responsibility to make your decisions for you.

When you get tipsy, that’s a good indicator that you need to stop.  If you’ve lost the ability to converse with God, you’ve had too much.

Besides, even if you may not wake up the next morning with a stranger in your bed, or you may be able to miraculously avoid bad decisions when you’re trashed, that doesn’t mean your friends or other people at the party are so lucky.

I’m not saying we should all quit drinking because other people have problems handling their alcohol intake.  I’m saying that we should stop letting it be “normal” behavior to get wasted and blackout on a regular basis (or ever).  It’s not normal behavior.  In fact it’s a sign you have a problem (contrary to popular belief: it most certainly can be alcoholism before graduation).

If you think that you or someone you know may have an alcohol problem (or if you’re just plain curious as to what one looks like), check out this questionnaire from Alcoholics Anonymous.  As they say, only you can make the call as to whether or not you have a problem.  But from experience, they say that answering, “yes” to 4 or more of the questions typically indicates a problem.

Sin is sin because it hurts us and the people around us.  Don’t reject your own ability to reason; and don’t be the reason someone else thinks it’s normal to have an alcohol problem.  It’s just not worth it.

  • Pat

    Mary – Thanks so much for this article. I’m, 24, Catholic and 2.5 years into sobriety from alcoholism. And LOVING LIFE! – This message is very important because alcohol itself is so deceptive yet so welcomed and encouraged in our culture. It is very easy to go along with it (unfortunately sometimes in Catholic environments) and neglect to see how you adequately stated “If you’ve lost the ability to converse with God, you’ve had too much.”  At 18, in a Catholic high school, my disease Took Off (to which I believe I was born with). – A.A., the Catholic Church & its Sacraments and most importantly the Grace of God have made sobriety and life the most exciting and thrilling journey I have ever been a part of! – Hoping to enter the seminary in the fall. – Pax Christi

  • Mercymokaleng

    thats so true

  • Jonathan Cariveau

    Mary, I think this is a great article, and a positive and reasonable introduction into why drunkenness is wrong at all (which many I would say don’t know). The one thing I would add is that the reason drunkenness is a sin is not simply a rational or clinical thing, it’s also I would say a terrible habit to develop because it can cause emotional problems in a home when and if you decide to marry and have kids. I think that people need to be aware the damage that can be done, depending on how people react to alcohol, if you raise kids in an environment where you’re constantly getting blasted drunk every weekend or so. Scar tissue – beyond “reasoning ability,” it’s a sin against charity, which are some of the most terrible sins of all. The legacy we leave our children is one of utmost importance, and Christ will ask that of us one day, and will call us to account for our poor handling of the ultimate gift – the gift of eternal souls entrusted to us. Is the example we leave them ideal, or would it be if you had kids? If not, time to rethink how much you drink.

  • DEUSVULT

    Dear Mary,
    I just found this website and i highly enjoy it because i have no practicing friends living within 1000 miles. I’m in the Navy. We have military monday, nothing-special tuesday, wings wednesday, karaoke thursday, friday is friday, saturday is saturday and sunday is the last opportunity to drink before the new week. I don’t drink every night but there are no excuses not to go whenever i want with my buddies. February is a short month but according to my credit card i dropped 700$ on booze. I had a dandy of a time. You said we should stop at tipsyness, but that’s when the fun starts. That’s when the talkative people become obnoxious and the quiet guys become hilariously beligerent. I do not see how it is a sin, but i do admit that my sexual tendancies do grow when the alcohol flows. We do drink a crazy lot but rarely get black out drunk. Last Friday i went blackout drunk even before we hit the club but according to my buddies i basically acted the same way i would if i still had my thinking faculties. I try to avoid sleeping with girls entirely, so as a consequuence i never sleep with girls when im drunk. I think that if you are sexually active sober you are the type of person who will wake up with someone in your bed. I agree that blackout drunk is bad but typsyness is not a sin and is not really the point to stop. Anyways, i learned how to pray and i pray even more drunk then when i’m sober. i ask God to set me up with a girl, to take me home safe, that we don’t get into a brawl, etc…
    I guess that i really don’t have any point. Just look at this as a personal reflection for a catholic living in the organization known as the bottom-less pit of debauchery, the Canadian military.

  • Terry

    I’m writing this from my one hour a day usage in the library at corcoran prison.  I know single handedly the evils of alcohol. I had been living on a mixed cocktail of prescription pills and booze for seven months when I “decided” to take at gun point $45.00 from my local Bed Bath and Beyond as well as a few shower curtains.  I have been sober four out of the five years I am to spend in prison. This blog perfectly summarizes what the societal psychology of alcohol needs to be. Well said and God bless. I thank God every day for the example HE has made of me. And hope, I get to learn from these experiences. Keep writing, spread the word, you are God’s greatest tool. 

  • Marylane

    I have been sober 7 years out of 12 and couldn’t be happier with God’s miraculous miracles in my life. This blog brings tears to my eyes. It reminds me of my journey towards becoming clean. My battle with the crack pipe was a life-changing experience that opened my eyes to the cultural shortcomings of our day. I opened up a winery in guatemala (wine is ok becaise Jesus drank it) and i love being able to spread the beauty of enjoying of alcohol IN MODERATION of course to the rest of society. Peace and love be with you my child.