Category Archives: Other Rants

All the miscellaneous stuff a young person faces in today’s world. Drinking, partying, the struggle to “fit in” while being true to yourself. We all deal with it. Let’s talk about it

The Day After Tomorrow

This is Tyler:

He’s the reason I haven’t been posting for weeks now.

You see, we’re getting married the day after tomorrow, and between that and final exams/papers, well there just hasn’t been time or extra brain space for blog posts.

Please keep us in your prayers this weekend (because the world is not ending tomorrow).  And I will return with new posts–and a husband!— after the start of the new year :)

What Will Your Gift to Jesus Be This Christmas?

Happy Advent!  Today begins that season of anticipation and preparation for Christ’s birth.

Advent is a season in which the whole Church is preparing for the coming of the Messiah at Christmas.

A voice cries out: “In the wilderness prepare the way of the Lord, make straight in the desert a highway for our God…”

What are you doing to prepare for Christ’s coming this season?  A good practice that Christians have traditionally done during advent is to make some sort of resolution, perhaps even an act of sacrifice or maybe some extra spiritual discipline (like making it a practice to go to daily mass more regularly .  It’s a great way to prepare for Jesus’ coming at Christmas, and what better gift to offer to Him than a renewed heart?

Pray about it.  Ask Jesus what He wants from you this Christmas.  And use these next four weeks to prepare your offering :)

Is the Church in the US Really in Trouble?

The Church and Healthcare

If the election taught me anything, it’s that the majority of Americans think us Catholics are crazy for thinking that the Administration’s Health and Human Services Mandate has put our religious liberty at risk.  In fact a good amount of Catholics voted for the re-election of Barack Obama despite the fact that every US Bishop united against this health mandate.

First let’s be clear that the Catholic Church is in no way against universal access to healthcare.  In fact the opposite is true.  The Church is very pro-access to healthcare; She teaches that healthcare is a basic human right:

PACEM IN TERRIS (April 11, 1963):

11. But first We must speak of man’s rights. Man has the right to live. He has the right to bodily integrity and to the means necessary for the proper development of life, particularly food, clothing, shelter, medical care, rest, and, finally, the necessary social services. In consequence, he has the right to be looked after in the event of ill health; disability stemming from his work; widowhood; old age; enforced unemployment; or whenever through no fault of his own he is deprived of the means of livelihood. (8)

 LABOREM EXERCENS:

19.  Besides wages, various social benefits intended to ensure the life and health of workers and their families play a part here. The expenses involved in health care, especially in the case of accidents at work, demand thatmedical assistance should be easily available for workers, and that as far as possible it should be cheap or even free of charge.

COMPENDIUM OF THE SOCIAL DOCTRINE OF THE CHURCH:

166. The demands of the common good are dependent on the social conditions of each historical period and are strictly connected to respect for and the integral promotion of the person and his fundamental rights[349]. These demands concern above all the commitment to peace, the organization of the State’s powers, a sound juridical system, the protection of the environment, and the provision of essential services to all, some of which are at the same time human rights: food, housing, work, education and access to culture, transportation, basic health care, the freedom of communication and expression, and the protection of religious freedom[350]. Nor must one forget the contribution that every nation is required in duty to make towards a true worldwide cooperation for the common good of the whole of humanity and for future generations also[351].

Something we can all agree on: Everyone should have access to healthcare.  This doesn’t mean that healthcare absolutely has to be provided by the state, but the state nonetheless has the responsibility to make sure all of its citizens have access to basic healthcare in one way or another.

The HHS Mandate and Religious Freedom

To understand why we Catholics keep saying our religious freedom is at risk, you have to understand that being apart of the Church means a lot more than going to mass on Sundays.  To be a Christian means to spread the Gospel.

I know that when I say “spread the Gospel,” most people automatically think of going door-to-door and trying to get people to come to church, but let’s stop and think about that for a second.  In the Church we have hundreds of thousands of men and women who choose to dedicate their lives to the service of Christ and His Church by taking religious vows—but how often do you see priests/brothers and nuns/sisters going door-to-door to try and get people to come to church?  Not too often…

Why is that?  Because one of the primary ways the Church spreads the Gospel is by literally bringing the love of Christ to God’s children in the world.  This is why the Church establishes hospitals to care for the sick, or starts schools to teach children to read and write, or builds orphanages to care for children.  It’s not just because these seem like nice things to do, or because they are good PR moves; it’s because the Church is established to spread the Gospel.  And all of this is spreading the Gospel, because all of this is truly laying down one’s life in the service of another.

And all of this is what’s at risk.  Because the HHS mandate only defines a “church” as where we go to worship on Sundays.  It doesn’t take into account that Christianity is mission (i.e. the Catholic Church doesn’t have a “missionary aspect;” The Church is mission).  The HHS mandate forces these hospitals, orphanages, and schools to pay for services that are contrary to the Church’s mission (contraception, abortion-inducing drugs, and sterilization), and thus forces them to shut down, cutting off all of the good that the Church does for people of all religions and all walks of life.

It should be noted that this fight has never been about wanting to limit access to contraception.  We in the Church just want to right to obey our conscience by not being forced to pay for services that violate the tenets of our faith.

This is why for nearly the past year we’ve had rallies for religious freedom; this is why we may seem more devastated at the results of this presidential election than we ever have in the past.  And this is why I’m asking all of you to pray and to stand with those of us in the Church who are concerned about our religious freedom.

To answer the title of this post: Is the Church in the US really in trouble?  It does seem that way.  But what is more troubling is the state of the many people in the US (Catholic or not) that depend on the Church for assistance.  But should we despair?  Of course not.  The Gates of Hell will not prevail, remember?

 

Overcoming Gossip

A while ago, I wrote about being happy for other people, and specifically about how it’s sometimes hard for me to do, especially when things aren’t looking so bright on my end. 

Today I want to focus on something that sort of goes hand-in-hand with that.  Because usually when we’re envious of something that is happening to another person, or when we are unhappy with ourselves for whatever reason, one of the first things we can turn to is gossip.

When people hear “gossip,” I think we automatically think of 13-year-old girls making up rumors about other 13-year-old girls.  That’s certainly awful, but what I’m talking about encompasses a lot more than just that.  I’m talking about any sort of uncharitable speech that serves no other real purpose than tearing another person down— whether it’s true or not.

It’s ugly, people.  And it has no place in our lives.  It’s against reason and all that is good and beautiful.

So, if you’re struggling with gossip, the first thing to do is to pray that God will help you overcome it.  Then, do what you can to take away the root of your desire to gossip.  Translation: Be genuinely happy for others (check out that other post to get my tips on how).

But it goes further.  Because if our brother or sister is being torn down in any way, we can’t just stand idly by and let it happen.  So, three things to help you evangelize by stopping gossip:

1. Speak Up

It’s ok to tell people they’re wrong when they’re doing something wrong (most especially if you know them well and it’s clear to them that it’s coming from a place of love).  If the conversation turns sour, speak up and defend whoever they’re mocking.  Tell them flat out that you don’t appreciate them speaking that way.  It may be scary, but it’s effective.

2. Be Cheerful

This one’s a little bit more subtle than the first.  Perhaps you don’t know the whole situation, but you still know your friends shouldn’t be speaking so harshly.  Now is the time to be positive.  Misery loves company; it hates cheerfulness.  You know your friends don’t truly want to wallow in misery so logically the most loving thing to do in this moment is to be cheerful and not indulge in the misery.  They may get annoyed with you, and you’ll be exhausted from trying to be so positive, but it will help everyone involved.

 

3. Shut Up

Like we were all taught in Kindergarten: If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.  It still applies.  Sometimes the most powerful witness is a silent one.  Even if people don’t take notice right away, eventually they will realize that there’s something different about you: you don’t take part in the tearing down of others.

All You Holy Men and Women, Pray for Us

Today we celebrate all of the saints—those whose names we know and those whose names we don’t.  The saints are those people who have reached heaven. As today’s first reading says:

“These are the ones who have survived the time of great distress;
they have washed their robes
and made them white in the Blood of the Lamb.”

-Revelation 7:14

Today we are especially reminded that we are all called to sainthood, and it’s a call that we should be striving to live out every moment of every day.  How?  Well, today’s gospel reading from Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount gives us a sort of battle plan.  And of course, we are encouraged by the examples and the prayers of the holy men and women who have gone before us.

I encourage you today to get a group of people you know together—maybe your family or some friends—and to pray together a litany of the saints.  Each time we gather together as Christians to celebrate the liturgy, the saints are there offering with us prayers to God on our behalf.  Let’s take some time today to acknowledge them and to ask them to bring our prayers before the throne of God.

(Don’t forget to get to go to mass today! It’s a Holy Day of Obligation)