Category Archives: Stuff Catholics Do

Common questions, perceptions, and reasons why we do what we do.

Horoscopes, Ouija Boards, and Other New-Age No-No’s

For all our talk of being a culture originally rooted in Christianity, the fact is that from the time we’re very young, it’s pretty commonplace to be exposed to a lot of pagan practices.  We go to slumber parties where someone thinks it’s a fun idea to pull out the Ouija board and/or have a séance.  We grow up and go to parties where someone thought it would be a fun idea to hire a palm reader.  Horoscopes are in the newspapers and magazines we read, and tarot cards are sold at the local bookstore.

For the most part, all of this is usually just presented as harmless fun.  The majority of people who take part in these practices aren’t exactly taking them seriously.  We post horoscopes to our Facebook page “for fun.”  We get our palms read at the party, “for fun.” Of course, we’re “too smart” to take all of this seriously, so there’s no harm done…right?

Actually, Satan would love for you to believe this—that all of this stuff is just harmless fun, when in reality you’re opening yourself up to a lot of evil.  The Catechism teaches this:

2116 All forms of divination are to be rejected: recourse to Satan or demons, conjuring up the dead or other practices falsely supposed to “unveil” the future. Consulting horoscopes, astrology, palm reading, interpretation of omens and lots, the phenomena of clairvoyance, and recourse to mediums all conceal a desire for power over time, history, and, in the last analysis, other human beings, as well as a wish to conciliate hidden powers. They contradict the honor, respect, and loving fear that we owe to God alone.

Now, I know some people read this and may say, “well I’m not doing it out of a ‘desire for power over time,’ I’m just having a little fun.  God won’t hold that against me, right?”  The truth is that this mindset is dangerous in itself.  Horoscopes, Ouija boards, and fortunetellers all seek to consult “powers” and “spirits” that are not of God.  This isn’t something to mess around with or to not take seriously.  On the contrary, this is something to take very seriously.  The question is: Whose side do you want to be on?

As sons and daughters of Christ, we need not fear the devil.  But if we’re going to mess around in the devil’s playground, we’re no longer behaving as sons and daughters of Christ.  And in doing so, we’re putting ourselves in a lot of danger by believing that we as mere human beings have any real power over the devil apart from Christ.

When people find out that this stuff is actually sinful, many times they freak out.  Remember that in order to commit a grave sin, you have to know that you’re committing a sin.  However, in this case I’d still recommend going to confession, not because God is angry with you, but because opening yourself up to these practices—knowingly or unknowingly—can have serious consequences.  The grace of absolution is powerful, and it sends demons fleeing.

So stop posting those horoscopes to your Facebook!  And if you see your friends doing it (especially your Christian friends), charitably let them know that they’re putting themselves and their friends in danger.

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Fasting on Fridays

“Denying material food, which nourishes our body, nurtures an interior disposition to listen to Christ and be fed by His saving word. Through fasting and praying, we allow Him to come and satisfy the deepest hunger that we experience in the depths of our being: the hunger and thirst for God.”

—Pope Benedict XVI

I wrote a couple of weeks ago about the need for fervent prayer for the intentions of life, marriage, and religious liberty in the United States.  I mentioned that the US bishops had approved a pastoral strategy with 5 action items for us all to offer for the intentions mentioned above.

One of those items happens to be fasting and abstaining from meat, every Friday.

Now, officially, we are only under obligation to fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday.  And abstaining specifically from meat is only required on Fridays during lent (though according to the code of Canon Law 1251, we are still required to abstain from another sort of food on all other Fridays throughout the year if we are going to eat meat).

Can.  1251: Abstinence from meat, or from some other food as determined by the Episcopal Conference, is to be observed on all Fridays, unless a solemnity should fall on a Friday. Abstinence and fasting are to be observed on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday.

I’m telling you all this so you know that it’s not sinful to not fast on Fridays.  It’s something extra that the bishops are asking of us because of the times we are living in.  They are not ordinary times. 

Practically speaking, in our culture Friday is one of the worst days to declare a fast.  It’s the end of the workweek.  It’s date night.  It’s the night to reward yourself for the long hours you put in this week.  And what better reward than of slice of that chocolate cake?  I can attest to the difficulty of sticking to fasting on Fridays now that I have a husband to cook for. Tyler gets up early every morning to go to work for us, and so on Fridays it’s extra hard for me to fight the urge to bake some celebratory end of the week chocolate chip cookies.

But Friday is no ordinary day.  It’s the day our Savior died for us.  It’s the day of the Cross.  The truth is that if our eyes and hearts are not on the Cross and on the Crucified One on Fridays, then our priorities are out of whack (and I’m convicted here, too).

So, in the threat of religious persecution— in the face of opposition for standing up for the truth— what better day to offer sacrifice?  What better day to unite ourselves to the redemptive suffering of our Lord?

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Ask Mary: Is the Traditional Latin Mass a Rejection of Vatican II?

Question:

There was an article that I came across today that (along with the accompanying comments) I found a bit disturbing…the author and many of the commenters seemed to believe that keeping alive the Traditional Latin Mass serves only to divide the church and he frames it as a rejection of Vatican II. My girlfriend and her family regularly attend the Extraordinary form of the Mass and I go with when I am home. I do not know much about Archbishop Lefebre or the Society of St. Pius X, but Pope Paul VI’s comments on that seem to be taken out of context.

If you could please provide me with some spiritual and theological
guidance, I would greatly appreciate it.

Answer:

Thanks for the great question! (you people are making me work!  I remember the days of Ask Mary questions that didn’t involve research… :P )

Let me begin by saying that I am of the opinion that someone who sets the Tridentine Mass against the Novus Ordo—as if they are members of different teams competing for one prize— likely misunderstands both.  That’s not to say that you can’t recognize beauty in different aspects of each; nor is it to say that you can’t have a personal preference for one over the other, but to argue that the existence of both is somehow a loss for the Church seems to me to miss the point.

For those that are immediately confused by phrases like “Tridentine,” or “Novus Ordo,” some explanation is due… (I’m the first to admit that I’m no expert of liturgical history, so corrections/clarifications in the comment box are most welcome).

For clarity’s sake: Novus Ordo = Ordinary Form, “Mass of Paul VI,” or Post-Vatican II (AKA, the mass you likely attend on Sundays); Tridentine = “Latin Mass,” “Extraordinary Form,” or simply, “EF.”

Until the Second Vatican Council, the mass that you likely attend on Sundays looked a little different.  Ok, maybe it looked a lot different.

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Less words spoken aloud by the congregation, way more incense, the priest (mostly) facing the other way, communion rails (i.e., receiving communion kneeling and on the tongue), and—of course—everything except the sermon spoken in Latin.

And it was beautiful.  And if you ever have the chance to attend a Tridentine mass today, go.

One of the primary reasons the Church saw fit to make changes to the way the liturgy was celebrated was to encourage more active participation by the laity.  Call it divine accommodation; the mass was revised for us.

11 But in order that the liturgy may be able to produce its full effects, it is necessary that the faithful come to it with proper dispositions, that their minds should be attuned to their voices, and that they should cooperate with divine grace lest they receive it in vain

21. In order that the Christian people may more certainly derive an abundance of graces from the sacred liturgy, holy Mother Church desires to undertake with great care a general restoration of the liturgy itself

In this restoration, both texts and rites should be drawn up so that they express more clearly the holy things which they signify; the Christian people, so far as possible, should be enabled to understand them with ease and to take part in them fully, actively, and as befits a community

50. The rite of the Mass is to be revised in such a way that the intrinsic nature and purpose of its several parts, as also the connection between them, may be more clearly manifested, and that devout and active participation by the faithful may be more easily achieved

I’ve quoted above from Sacrosanctum Concilium: the Vatican II Document Promulgated by Pope Paul VI in 1963 which outlined the changes to be made to the liturgy in order to encourage greater participation by the laity. I suggest reading the whole thing for your own understanding and spiritual growth.  Also check out “The Spirit of the Liturgy” by Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger (#beforehewaspope).

You may have noticed that human beings have a tendency to freak out about change.  We often think change means rejection of the old.  We’re an “either/or” people, so we often struggle to grasp the concept of “both/and.”  The truth is that, whether you’re going to a mass said in English, Latin, or Chinese, it’s in your best interest to know what is going on.  No matter the language or the form, our hearts and minds need to be in the right place.  In the years leading up to Vatican II, the Church— loving mother that she is— saw many of her children struggling (or perhaps better put, not struggling enough) to be actively engaged in the mass.  So she offered another way.

When people talk about Vatican II and the changes made to the mass, you’ll hear the phrase “active participation” used a lot (and, hopefully, from the above quotes you see why.  This was the one of the primary concerns of the Council).  It’s important that we don’t misunderstand this phrase.  Just because changes like speaking in the vernacular were made in order to encourage active participation by the faithful does not mean that the Church was/is saying that speaking aloud = being actively engaged.

There are two sides to this: Go to one of many Catholic masses on any given Sunday and listen to the droning English responses of the congregation, and you’ll learn firsthand that speaking aloud doesn’t necessarily mean that you know or care what is going on.  Conversely, yelling the responses at the top of our lungs with animated faces means nothing if our hearts are lacking the proper disposition.  These changes were made in part to encourage active participation, but ultimately it is up to the individual to decide whether or not to practice active participation in the liturgy.

And lest anyone think that active participation cannot be achieved or that it is/was not encouraged in the Traditional Latin Mass, Pope Pius X saw it a different way:

If you wish to hear Mass as it should be heard, you must follow with eye, heart and mouth all that happens at the altar. Further, you must pray with the priest the holy words said by him in the Name of Christ and which Christ says by him. You have to associate your heart with the holy feelings which are contained in these words and in this manner you ought to follow all that happens at the altar. When acting in this way, you have prayed Holy Mass.”

                  -Pope Saint Pius X

Today, two forms of the Roman Rite of the liturgy are approved.  As I’ve said, they are distinguished as “Ordinary Form” (Post-Vatican II) and “Extraordinary Form” (Latin Mass).  In 2007, Pope Benedict issued an Apostolic Letter to the bishops (Summorum Pontificum) explaining the Church’s decision to restore the Traditional Latin Mass to the liturgy of the Church.  This decision declared the Traditional Latin Mass the “Extraordinary Form” of the Roman Rite, and the “Mass of Paul VI” (post-Vatican II) the “Ordinary Form” (“ordinary” meaning, “normal;” not, “less cool”).  Prior to this, individual priests had to seek permission from their bishops to celebrate the Tridentine Liturgy.   From Summorum Pontificum:

The last version of the Missale Romanum prior to the Council, which was published with the authority of Pope John XXIII in 1962 and used during the Council, will now be able to be used as a Forma extraordinaria of the liturgical celebration.  It is not appropriate to speak of these two versions of the Roman Missal as if they were “two Rites”.  Rather, it is a matter of a twofold use of one and the same rite…

As for the Latin Mass being a rejection of Vatican II, Pope Benedict says:

…As for the use of the 1962 Missal as a Forma extraordinaria of the liturgy of the Mass, I would like to draw attention to the fact that this Missal was never juridically abrogated and, consequently, in principle, was always permitted…

…Many people who clearly accepted the binding character of the Second Vatican Council, and were faithful to the Pope and the Bishops, nonetheless also desired to recover the form of the sacred liturgy that was dear to them. This occurred above all because in many places celebrations were not faithful to the prescriptions of the new Missal, but the latter actually was understood as authorizing or even requiring creativity, which frequently led to deformations of the liturgy which were hard to bear.

In short, the claim that the existence of the Latin Mass today is a rejection of Vatican II is unfounded (see Summorum Pontificum in which Pope Benedict answers this fear).  It is true that there are those who have rejected Vatican II outright, but attending mass in the Extraordinary Form does not amount to rejection of Vatican II, nor does it serve to divide the Church if properly understood.  My suggestion: Attend mass in the form that brings you closest to Our Lord (attend both if you so please), and accept that other people will do the same.

One final note: I’m by no means an expert when it comes to Vatican II but I’ve read enough to know that when you begin compare what you so often hear people say about Vatican II with the actual documents of Vatican II, they are often worlds apart. (For instance: Did you know that, according to Vatican II, the faithful are still required to know all of our parts of the mass in Latin?)  It leaves you wondering whether these people have spent any amount of time studying these documents, or if they’re just passing along what they’ve been told by others.  This Year of Faith is marks the 50th anniversary of the Second Vatican Council.  It’s a great time to dive in!

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Life, Marriage, and Religious Liberty: Why You Should Care

Life, Marriage, and Religious Liberty. 

If these aren’t already in your daily prayer intentions, then consider this post a letter to you from me.

Life
This month marks 40 years of legalized abortion in the US.  And around this time every year, a flurry of voices (especially in the Catholic world) take the opportunity to talk about the right to life, and what we can all do to help.  This year, Time Magazine has entered into the discussion, acknowledging what we’ve been saying for years: The tide is turning.

 

Still, 40 years is too long a time; and the battle is not won yet (at least not this side of heaven).  Pray for the end of abortion.

Marriage

Last November, a number of states moved in the direction of redefining marriage.  I’d like to share an important quote from the first two pages of a book I am reading, entitled, “What is Marriage?  Man and Woman: A Defense” 

“What we have come to call the gay marriage debate is not directly about homosexuality, but about marriage: It is not about whom to let marry, but about what marriage is….

The conjugal view of marriage…is a vision of marriage as a bodily as well as an emotional and spiritual bond, distinguished thus by its comprehensiveness, which is, like all love, effusive: flowing out into the wide sharing of family life and ahead to lifelong fidelity.  In marriage, so understood, the world rests its hope and finds ultimate renewal.

A second, revisionist view has informed the marriage policy reforms in the last several decades.  It is a vision of marriage as, in essence, a loving emotional bond, one distinguished by its intensity—a bond that needn’t point beyond the partners, in which fidelity is ultimately subject to one’s own desires.  In marriage, so understood, partners seek emotional fulfillment, and remain as long as they find it.”

If you’re picking up what I’m putting down, then perhaps you realize that the reality “dream wedding” shows that we watch on TV— whether they depict the marriages of same-sex or opposite-sex couples— almost exclusively propose the revisionist view of marriage described above.  What we are feeding ourselves in the culture is that marriage is merely an emotional bond distinguished only by its intensity, in which fidelity is subjective, and one that is expected to last only as long as each partner feels emotionally fulfilled.

But that’s not what marriage is.  At least, that’s not what it’s supposed to be.  This is why the answer to any of the threats on marriage we face in our culture is not simply to rail against the false idea put forward, but to propose and to strengthen the reality of true marriage and family life.  Pray for married couples and all families.

Religious Liberty

In the background of all of this in the United States is a serious threat to our first freedom: the right to religious liberty.

The HHS Mandate,… requires almost all employers, including Catholic employers, to pay for employees’ contraception, sterilization, and abortifacient drugs regardless of conscientious objections.

To give an example, beginning this month, the Christian owners of Hobby Lobby are facing serious daily fines for refusing to comply.  Pray for the right to freely practice our faith.  Pray that the HHS Mandate is overturned.

No seriously, the Bishops have asked us all to pray and fast. 

In fact they’ve asked five things of us, in an approved pastoral strategy beginning on the feast of the Holy Family (last Sunday), until the feast of Christ the King (November 24th).  

  1. Monthly Eucharistic Holy Hour
  2. Daily Rosary
  3. Prayers of the Faithful
  4. Abstain from Meat
  5. Fortnight for Freedom

I will be writing a more detailed post on how to participate in each of these, but for now you can check out this link to the bishops’ website for more information. 

On the bright side, we know the ending to this story:  

“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.” (John 1:5)

My Offering

Occasionally, when attending mass with one or more of my siblings and their adorable little children (AKA my nieces and nephews), God will smile on me, and one of those little kiddos will decide it’s cool to sit with Aunt Mary for part of the mass.

Because it’s extra important to me that all of my nieces and nephews recognize how important the mass is even from an early age, I try to take the opportunity to invite them to be engaged in what’s going on.  This usually means a lot of pointing at the priest, telling my niece or nephew to listen to what is being said, and generally just leading by example.

But one of my favorite parts of the mass to have my nieces or nephews sitting with me is during the offertory.   There’s a lot going on at this point.  The basket is coming around and the kids are getting all excited; the altar boys are moving candles around; and the priest at this part of the mass is harder to find than at any other point, which makes it fun for me to ask the kids to point out where he is.

So, when I have the pleasure of having a niece or a nephew with me during the offertory, I like to build up the anticipation and excitement at this part of mass as much as I can.  “Where is the priest going?”  “Look, there he is!”  “Watch!  They’re bringing bread and wine up to the altar and the priest is going to offer it to God!”

As much as I love sharing my excitement with the little ones, I love it most especially because it’s what is going on in my heart every mass during the offertory.  Having the kids with me just gives me an opportunity to verbalize it in some way.  The priest prepares the altar and I begin to prepare my heart.  The basket comes around and, whether or not I give financially that day, I fix my intention: What will I offer you today, God?  What am I still holding on to?  What is it I need to give over to you?  What should I chose to bless you with today?

“This humble and simple gesture [the offertory] is actually very significant: in the bread and wine that we bring to the altar, all creation is taken up by Christ the Redeemer to be transformed and presented to the Father… In this way we also bring to the altar all the pain and suffering of the world, in the certainty that everything has value in God’s eyes… It enables us to appreciate how God invites man to participate in bringing to fulfillment his handiwork, and in so doing, gives human labor its authentic meaning, since, through the celebration of the Eucharist, it is united to the redemptive sacrifice of Christ.”

–Pope Benedict XVI

The offertory is our chance to give over to God, not only our gifts, but our yearnings as well as our shortcomings.  All that we offer is taken up with the bread and wine and is presented to God the Father.

So what is it that God is calling you to give?